Red flags are those tiny troubling signals we get about our health, a relationship, an organisation or right before we get scammed. They start off as being tiny little sirens in our head alerting us but how many of us do listen to them?
In fact, most of us ignore them initially. I used to think they were part of my imagination. But they’re not. They’re warning signals your intuition is telling you. And they keep popping up until you listen. And if you don’t (like most of us ) it could lead to heartache, stress. loss or regret. And you end up feeling or saying things like
“I noticed his cruel, disrespectful and rude tone with his mother when we were dating. I thought I’d never hear it. I was wrong. After we married he began talking to me in the same tone”
“She’d hide booze bottles in her wardrobe. I ignored her alcoholism for years until the children started getting affected by her behaviour. I could have helped her earlier.”
“At some point in my interview the CFO asked me if I had any questions about working with us. He couldn’t answer any of my questions. I should have known then that there would be utter confusion ahead”
“When he began sharing his financial worries, I felt it was odd as we’d only just begun chatting online, but as we got closer I lent him some money. Now he blocks my calls”
And then what? We regret, we get angry or sad and when the pain wears off there’s a little voice inside us telling us “Don’t ignore the red flags. They’re there for your own good. Peace out before it gets too much to handle”
The wise ones tell us this a thousand times but we still don’t remember until its too late. Things we take for granted get taken. Appreciate the people in your life. Show them, tell them and cherish them. Appreciate all the things in your life you just assume will always be around. Make it a daily practice to count your blessings and be thankful. Appreciation brings more blessings.
When I began learning the Tarot way back in 1998 I never thought I’d go professional until a friend suggested it to me. It took me 5 years to feel I knew enough about the 78 Tarot card meanings and spreads to start my own practice and in August 2003, I took the leap. At first I thought, “ok let me try it out for a year”
16 years have passed and I still am trying it out:) Learning as I go along from books, from courses and most of all from all the wonderful souls who have turned to my deck for answers. And have supported and encouraged me down the years. As a token of gratitude, I’ve got a few surprises lined up for all of you who take out the time to come to me at my office in Gurgaon or opt for telephonic readings this month.
Looking forward to celebrating with all of you:)
For appointments message me on firstname.lastname@example.org/9810138315
Every now and then someone up there sends me someone so divine to meet for half an hour, or even half a minute and my life is transformed forever. Random people – clients, patients,neighbors, acquaintances…. – old, young, male, female – people who are just so likeable. Soooooo likeable. They have a glow around them. A certain purity. A rare ability to stay for long periods of time in the present moment. And a certain magical air about them.
Whenever I do get blessed by the presence of these souls, or they help me just when I need them, I thank and ask God to bless them for their ability to spread happiness. What’s even more beautiful is some of them don’t even know they have such a lovely gift. Such people are angels in disguise.
Think of the angels who you’ve met. Thank them:) And pray there be many more such angels in disguise on our planet. We could all do with a few more, don’t you think?:)
Something’s bothering you and you cant put your finger on this growing
sense of uneasiness. For a while you may feel like the others in the team are
out to steal your idea or worse still, keep you out of the loop. Don’t run away
with suspicion. Simply detach and return after a while. Overwork is taking its
toll on your health, make some time for you. Personal relationships may be
strained, realise it’s not them who needs to change, it’s your atitude towards them.
Deep and total relaxation will be very therapeutic.
Taurus (Apr 20- May 20)
Work may be boring you, or perhaps a relationship begins to lose its thrill. A part of you want to start afresh or simply run away to the mountains and completely let go of worldly life. Whatever it is that is bothering you will stop the minute you realise that only you can make a positive difference into your life. Your body may need exercise. Or you may need to up your vitamin intake. If you’ve been finding it hard to relax, how about a day at the spa? Financially expect some good news towards the end of the month.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Stop being so stubborn and thinking only your view is right. Pause and truly listen to what others are advising you. A part of you may know it’s true but your ego isnt ready to listen. Keep your eyes and ears open for a sudden opportunity. Your work load may suddenly increase and annoying disruptions could hold you back from completing your tasks. Relax, you’re only being tested on endurance levels. How much can you take? You’re stronger than you think. Financially a month of gains and opportunities, just work on your time management.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Travel broadens the mind and this is a wonderful period for getting away from the mundane and the predictable. You may discover the student within you itching to learn a new subject or skill. What stops you? A young person may open your mind to a whole new perspective. And if single, expect the sparks of chemistry and a short, sweet affair. Married couples may find it’s time to change home or expand your living space. Children will surprise you with their intelligence and you could find ways to bond more with your loved ones.
Leo (July 23- Aug 22)
Relax, your fears are not coming true. Stop taking the safe path, and will yourself to taking a few risks. The coming few months promise success and results but only if you take a leap of faith. In the personal front expect reconciliations or some form of making up with a special someone. Hearts get mended. And vows get renewed. A lucky break comes your way, don’t hold yourself back, say YES and see where you head. An old acquaintance may ask you for a favour if you’re prepared to give without expecting anything in return then do so. Acts of charity bring blessings your way.
Virgo (Aug 23- Sept 22)
Tempers run high and you may find yourself irritated with a few souls at the workplace. Bickering may escalate into full blown arguments. Keep your temper in check. And if it gets unbearable, go for a walk. This is not the time to make enemies in the team. A young man may annoy you to the point of exasperation. Even in the home front family members may begin to wonder about your sullenness. What aspect of yourself are you denying? Can a little introspection help? Or how about practicing meditation? Be your own best friend and help yourself find the peace.
Libra (Sept 23- Oct 22)
One door closes, and another door opens. Don’t take rejection personally. And try not to get too disappointed. Bigger, better opportunities are coming your way. You just have to believe in yourself a little more. A project you were waiting for may get delayed or cancelled. Doesn’t matter, there’s a lot of other things you can do cant you? An old friend may need your help. And a sibling may require advice or aid. Financially a week of planning, keep a close eye on your expenses especially if you have a tendency to splurge.
Scorpio (Oct 23- Nov21)
An investment pays off. Your team bags a prized account. And sales figures reach an all time high. A week of celebrations. And knowing that somewhere you deserve every bit of it. Your astute business sense is not going unrecognised. And you may feel like starting out on your own or contemplating a new investment. Lady Luck is smiling on you. Your personal life can get better but first you need to look within and see what needs changing from your side if you want the harmony to return. Make a lifestyle change, give up the booze or give up the carbs, do something your body will thank you for.
Saggitarius (Nov 22- Dec 21)
Repairs and firefighting seem to be theme song for the days ahead.
Something breaks down, and just as you fix it, something else goes bust. Relax,
you’re capable enough to make it all happen for you. Try not to fret about
things that are beyond your control. And nagging is not going to help either.
If your spouse or mate has been stubborn, let them be. Children may be
exasperating as well with their unwillingness to listen. Remember you can only
do so much and no more for others.
Capricorn (Dec 22-Jan19)
Hope springs forth and you find yourself renewed and reinvigorated. Your energy levels are high and a lot can get accomplished in the following days. Just make sure things arent done to hastily. A careless mistake could prove costly. Personally you may feel like a makeover and opt for a new hairstyle or even revamp your wardrobe. Pamper yourself a bit, don’t you think you deserve it?
Aquarius (Jan 20- Feb 18)
Worrying is simply a waste of energy. And trying to control what’s truly
not in your hands is only going to raise your blood pressure. Learn to let go.
At work, a tiresome project or situation finally comes to an end, bringing
relief for all. At home, a parent may need medical attention and should feel
better within a few days. Watch out for overeating or overspending. Now’s the
time for balance and moderation, and not indulgence!
Pisces (Feb 19- Mar20)
Be patient dear Piscean, things will work out the way you have planned but
you need to learn how to wait. If recuperating from an illness or ailment make
sure you eat the right food to bring your energies back. An annoying colleague
may provoke you into saying or doing something quite surprising. In terms of
your love life, you may need to improve your listening skills if you want more