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Not the Marrying Kind

28 Tuesday Jun 2022

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“I’m 35. I want to settle down and have babies. What do I need to know about this guy as a prospective husband?

Her questions poured out nervously as she spoke during the session. And when I turned the cards over, I saw everything but stability with him. Reluctant to commit. Long gaps in their communication. Highly ambitious. Placing his job before everyone else.Sexual attraction but thats where it stopped. After reading out to her, I summarised “He’s not a family man”

“What do you mean?” she asked
“if you’re looking for someone who places his wife and children as a top priority, he’s not. Someone who’s a homebody, with a strong nesting instinct. Who will be a father, actively involved in raising your children, he wont. Someone who will come home to you and only you every evening after work, he would rather be hitting the pubs and clubs. Or hitting on other women. When you need him, he’d probably be in a meeting and wont answer the call. He cherishes his independence and does’nt see his future the way you do. Not interested in being tied down to conventional family structures, he wants to do his thing, when he wants to.

“Yes, he loves his space and privacy. When I ask him where he’s been, he gets annoyed”

More cards revealed a man of secrets. Who treasures and loves his private world, where he is’nt answerable to anyone. And the more you ask, the more you push him away into his secrets.

Something in the cards struck a chord within her. There was a sigh of relief and a lilt in her voice. She summarised … “It’s not about me, or any other woman, it’s about him. Something in his past made him withdraw from commited, stable relationships. And somewhere, he’s not ready to be a family man at all. I dont think he ever will”

She understood. The faster she accepted his “no strings attached” attitude, the more she would accept him as he was, and release all expectations of wedding bells and babies and an apartment .She had made peace with her connection. And when she asked her next question, we both laughed.
“Will I find another man?”

Mita Bhan 2022

Weekly Tarot Forecast 26 June -2 July 2022

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Be mindful about your relationships this week. Pay attention to how your energy feels around certain people. Take note of your feelings. Everyone who is in your life right now is meant to be there. Either as a blessing. Or as a teacher, to remind you of certain life lessons you may need to learn right now. Is it tolerance, humility, compassion, respect or even detachment? No one is going to change for you, only you will, when you realise why they may be in your life at the moment – bringing you joy or bringing you pain. There are no accidents in the Universe. Everyone and everything has a place and reason. It’s upto us to figure it out.

Your Week Ahead for your Sun Sign

https://www.indiatoday.in/horoscopes/story/weekly-horoscope-from-june-26-to-july-2-your-luck-for-this-week-see-which-signs-have-lady-luck-smiling-for-them-1966701-2022-06-26

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The Lady and the Sage

20 Monday Jun 2022

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One day an older lady came to meet the wise sage. She hobbled up to him slowly with the aid of an attendant and a walking stick. Upon seeing her, the sage rose with his hands folded offering her his seat.
“How can I help you?” he asked her, after waiting for her to settle down and catch her breath. She smiled and said “I have only come to thank you. The last time you met me I was crying about being alone and ignored by my own children. I was lost. And you told me I needed to find myself but I could only do that by losing something.

For several weeks I wondered what did I have to lose? My keys? My home? My mind? In my search to find out what I needed to lose I forgot about waiting for my children to remember me. I lost track of all the people who didn’t answer my calls. I lost my need to expect so much from my family and friends. I started finding myself.”Her eyes shone as she spoke “and you know what, some started remembering me without reminders. I feel so free now”
The Sage met her eyes, and raised his arms as if he were flapping his wings. The old lady joined in. Her laughter was as pure as childs.

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Be Better Than Yesterday

09 Thursday Jun 2022

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True isn’t it? I’ve always seen the people who are snobby, or constantly competing and comparing stay stuck where they are. Real growth happens from inside not over your shoulder or below your nose.

Here’s what the Week Ahead is like for your Sun Sign

https://www.indiatoday.in/horoscopes/story/weekly-horoscope-june-5-to-june-11-lady-luck-smiling-on-you-stars-in-favour-1957693-2022-06-05

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Your Path Your Life

07 Tuesday Jun 2022

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You don’t need anyones approval to be unapologetically yourself. Be yourself. And let them be themselves.

Here’s what the Week Ahead is like for your Sun Sign

https://www.indiatoday.in/horoscopes/story/weekly-horoscope-june-5-to-june-11-lady-luck-smiling-on-you-stars-in-favour-1957693-2022-06-05

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Don’t Accept the Negativity – A Buddhist Parable

25 Wednesday May 2022

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Buddha was travelling through the country accompanied by several people. One of these men decided to test Buddha and began responding negatively to everything Buddha said. For several days this man continued with disparaging, insulting and hurtful remarks. He verbally abused Buddha by calling him a fool and ridiculing him in any way he could.

After verbally abusing Buddha for three days, the man asked Buddha, “how can you continue to be so kind and loving when all I’ve done for the last three days is dishonor and offend you? With every rude and obnoxious remark you have always responded in a kind manner – How can this be?”

Buddha quietly turned to the man and asked this simple – yet profound question, “If someone offers you a gift, and you do not accept that gift, to whom the gift belongs?”

So if someone is offering you an unwelcome gift of rudeness, anger or hostility – Don’t accept it. As long as you do not accept it, there is no reason for you to be sad or angry about it as it does not belong to you – it belongs to them.

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Weekly Tarot Forecast 22-28 May 2022

22 Sunday May 2022

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Every Tarot reading is a learning for not just the querent but also the reader. Life lessons, deeper understanding and atitudes are revealed. For which I am grateful. This week I learned from reading the cards of two individuals who have made a mark in their respective fields as success stories. One is a globally renowned musician and the other is a business magnate with offices across the globe. Both connected with me, with their respective questions, seeking clarity or validation. Their backgrounds, their stories, their auras were totally incomparable but both their approaches to life are identical and both had something to teach me and all of us.

They are solution seekers. They know their problems. They know what can be solved. What cannot. And instead of dwelling in their problems, they choose to give their energies to the way forward. Sometimes by understanding the situation from a spiritual perspective. Sometimes by accepting facts and letting go. They understand the importance of time, their own and the other’s time. They apply what they hear. And the rest is history.

“A person who sees a problem is a human being; a person who finds a solution is visionary

Wishing you a week full of possibilities.

Your Week Ahead

https://www.indiatoday.in/horoscopes/story/weekly-horoscope-from-may-22-to-may-28-your-luck-for-this-week-see-which-signs-have-lady-luck-smiling-for-them-1952410-2022-05-22

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Here we go again

20 Friday May 2022

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That’s the thing about life lessons. They keep repeating until we learn. And sometimes we think we’ve learnt but the lesson reappears for one final test. Does this resonate with you?

Weekly Tarot Forecast

https://www.indiatoday.in/horoscopes/story/weekly-horoscope-from-may-15-to-may-21-your-luck-for-this-week-see-which-signs-have-lady-luck-smiling-for-them-1948792-2022-05-15

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Anti Ageing for Your Brain

09 Monday May 2022

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When my dad chose to do his MBA in his fifties people laughed at him. They said “what’s the use of studying now?” He said he was curious about the subject and did his distance learning late at night his bedside strewn with books. On the day of his final exam he made sure his pencil box was well stocked and he drove extra early to take his exam. We smiled at his eccentricity but little did we know that adult learning would be a necessity someday.

3 decades later, scientists around the world have proven that adult learning is the best anti ageing remedy for our brains for life. By learning something new everyday.

Even if it’s a new exercise for your upper body. Or a new take on your favourite recipe. Or a subject that fascinates you. Learning a new skill, practice, hobby or language enhances concentration and memory at a physical level and it enables growth and relevance on the professional front.

If there’s anything I have learnt from my Dad never let your age come in the way of learning. At 85, he’s currently experimenting with gifs and stickers in his WhatsApp chats with his Uni buddies.

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Meditation is a pain ….

29 Friday Apr 2022

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Struggling to meditate? When I began meditating in 2000 it took me nearly 2 years to truly get the hang of it and to reap the benefits that followed. Yes it was a pain because I was restless, inconsistent and trying too hard. If there’s anything I’ve learnt in the past 20 years meditation is best as a daily discipline when it’s effortless. Don’t give up.

Weekly Tarot Forecast

https://www.indiatoday.in/horoscopes/story/weekly-horoscope-from-april-24-to-april-30-your-luck-for-this-week-see-which-signs-have-lady-luck-smiling-for-them-1940952-2022-04-24

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