We want the good old ways, or the good old days. But deep down we know it’s not going to happen. It’s either accept, adapt, suffer or struggle.
When 4 fives come out in a single spread, you know it’s no small matter. In the Tarot, fives represent change, challenge, fluctuations of energy and a certain unpredictablity with it. And when reflected in the 4 suits you can be sure the changes are taking place at all levels, globally and personally – at all levels – Professionally, Personally, Mentally, Emotionally, Spiritually.
The key to change is to not panic or fear. Not all changes are bad. Some serve us wake up calls. And some get us ready for who we were meant to be and what we were meant to become. Take time out to meditate regularly and operate from a place of stillness. Maintain an open mind and go with the flow. And while you’re at it, think of ways to adapt with changing times.
As the great Greek philospher once said “The secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old but on building the new”
Facing sudden changes at your workplace or in your relationships? For more insights on Peaceful Transitions – get in touch for a Tarot Reading or a Guided Healing Meditation, message 9810138315/mita.bhan@gmail.com.
Bless the hearts of the founders of Salam Balak Trust and all their volunteers for giving love, food, shelter, education and employment to the boys who live in their shelter in New Delhi.
Being a child on the streets of Delhi is no playground.The harshest, roughest neighbourhood brings out a strong, survival instinct, and a certain intelligence that’s a blend of street smart and an intuitive understanding of Life. Raising them right too requires a sensitivity and a firmness inculcating a sense of discipline and eventual purpose.
When I walked in this morning armed with my notes on teaching kids how to manage their anger, I was surprised by their answers. Each one had a particular insight to share.
When asked how do you handle anger, almost all of them spoke of bashing up the bad guy except one. “When I feel angry, I just go to my room and dance” He already knew how to channel the energies of anger.
Guided healing meditations with the boys
When we spoke of breathing techniques and practiced sharp exhales, one boy remarked “I know this, this is kapaalbhaati and it’s good for health” The session continued in dialogue, laughter and shared learnings.
When they closed their eyes in meditation and received hands on healing I understood the real meaning of ‘all is one”
Thank you young souls, may you grow up to be the change our world needs. And heartfelt thanks to my friends and family who support me:)
According to ancient Hindu Scriptures everyone of us has some sort of karmic debt to clear with each and every one we interact with. We are all born with ‘rin” a debt we need to clear, a lesson we need to learn if we want to live a life of peace. We cannot take without giving back. And those who only take are bound by their selfish karmas for lifetimes.
The path to peace comes from acknowledging our karmic debts with humanity and serving or helping one less fortunate. At a larger level, peace can be attained by giving back to society. Donating a percentage of earnings to charity. And at a day to day level, helping the person next to us. The mere act of doing or giving another brings joy and peace is an indication that our karma is a little clearer and lighter. And we are more aligned with our purpose as being human on earth.
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Aries (Mar 21 – Apr 19)
If you haven’t learnt from the mistakes of the past, a lesson may be repeated. Be alert to the red flags people are showing in your life. Don’t ignore hunches. A crisis can be averted with planning. Roll up your sleeves and double check written documents. Your willpower is high this month so identify a bad habit and let it go. A friend may reveal his true colours, but you had sensed it all along.
Taurus (Apr 20- May 20)
Don’t hold back. Don’t underestimate yourself. Changes are about to come into your life and your preparation will be perfect. The clearer your goals, the easier the path. A relationship could turn serious or you may talk of partnerships in business. Be clear in your communication. Leave no room for misunderstandings. And while you’re at it, enjoy a month of feeling lighter as you let go of more and more baggage in your life.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Reconnect with your inner self. Reconnect with loved ones. Learn something new. Staying stuck in old patterns of behaviour and action will only lead to stagnation. Money matters may frustrate you with delays but that’s only happening to teach you that money isn’t everything. Exercise a little caution before you blindly trust someone. Don’t wait for the symptoms of stress to reach the peak point – destress regularly for relief.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Relief at last. Something works out in your favour. Finances improve or show the promise of increase. Conflict is averted. People begin to understand what you’ve been trying to say for days. And you can begin to relax with the knowledge that you deserve this respite. A great month for a short getaway, you will return recharged and even more optimistic about the days ahead. Just mind your eating habits, overindulgence in the rich, heavy stuff could lead to a minor ailment.
Leo (July 23- Aug 22)
Frustration is a sign that something in you needs to change. It could be the way you respond to unecessary delays, or with difficult people. The more you accept this, the smoother things will be this month. Control your impulses and keep your temper in check. One wrong word said in a moment of anger could hurt a loved one. A good month for students or those who are building up skills, the cards promise rewards, but only after a bit of stress and struggle. Accept that things will not change until you do.
Virgo (Aug 23- Sept 22)
Your mind opens up to new possibilities. You’re no longer the person you were, and you find yourself thinking and responding differently. A month for stepping out of your comfort zone, you may be in the mood to take a risk, or two, or three. You may find yourself falling for a person who’s not your type. Alternative therapies may help with a recurring ailment and meditation will be highly beneficial. Don’t listen so much to your inner critic.
Libra (Sept 23- Oct 22)
Choices choices and if it’s hard to decide. just go with your heart. The decisions you make this month will have long term effects so take your time and once you decide, don’t look back. Indulge your love for beauty and if creative, express yourself through the Arts. A wonderful period for meeting people, you may just meet a soulmate. Financial worries ease a little but something needs to be reorganised and relooked.
Scorpio (Oct 23- Nov21)
There’s something you need to remember. It could be the key to situation you’re in. Trust your gut feel about someone or something. Take time out for meditation and introspection. A vital truth is about to be revealed that could change your life in many ways. Someone who appeared to be interesting may turn out to be quite a bore, or worse, a pain in the neck. Don’t give too much of yourself before understanding who you are giving to. Control the urge to splurge. If you’re planning to shift homes or change jobs, keep going.
Saggitarius (Nov 22- Dec 21)
You may find yourself nostalgic about the good old days. Or you may miss a special someone from a long time ago. This month asks you to look back on your past for one last time and then move on. Holding on isnt working. And if it’s a relationship or a job that isnt bringing you happiness, then take a good hard look at your life and change it. Money that was owed to you will be returned. You may plan a trip overseas. Be a little vigilant in health matters.
Capricorn (Dec 22-Jan19)
Worrying is a waste of energy. And the minute you realise that you’ll find September to be a far more productive month. Self employed people may find money matters a little concerning but with patience and persistence things should start perking up towards the end of the month. Even at work you may feel you’re being left out of some important decisions and may need to work on your boss management skills. Not a month to squander your energies, get a little more organised and a little more patient and things should work out in your favour. A surprise encounter could turn into a life long friendship.
Aquarius (Jan 20- Feb 18)
Someone may be trying to control you or force you to change your opinions. It could be a family member or a boss. Before you cave in, speak out and stand up for yourself. A situation at home may get tense, and may need to be talked about. Sweeping things under the carpet doesn’t mean a solution has been found. Take issues head on and resolve to clear them up once and for all. A good time for research and getting to the bottom of things your mind is at its sharpest. A mystery will be solved. An answer will be found.
Pisces (Feb 19- Mar20)
A soul cycle comes to an end. And a new, happier phase begins. A month of harmony and smooth interactions with others. Forgiveness brings liberation. Let bygones go and decide who you want in your life. You may find yourself working for a cause or on a dream project and others will sense your renewed enthusiasm. Marriage plans may get finalised. Remember to thank those who contribute to your success story. Keep the circle of good thoughts going.
Red flags are those tiny troubling signals we get about our health, a relationship, an organisation or right before we get scammed. They start off as being tiny little sirens in our head alerting us but how many of us do listen to them?
In fact, most of us ignore them initially. I used to think they were part of my imagination. But they’re not. They’re warning signals your intuition is telling you. And they keep popping up until you listen. And if you don’t (like most of us ) it could lead to heartache, stress. loss or regret. And you end up feeling or saying things like
“I noticed his cruel, disrespectful and rude tone with his mother when we were dating. I thought I’d never hear it. I was wrong. After we married he began talking to me in the same tone”
“She’d hide booze bottles in her wardrobe. I ignored her alcoholism for years until the children started getting affected by her behaviour. I could have helped her earlier.”
“At some point in my interview the CFO asked me if I had any questions about working with us. He couldn’t answer any of my questions. I should have known then that there would be utter confusion ahead”
“When he began sharing his financial worries, I felt it was odd as we’d only just begun chatting online, but as we got closer I lent him some money. Now he blocks my calls”
And then what? We regret, we get angry or sad and when the pain wears off there’s a little voice inside us telling us “Don’t ignore the red flags. They’re there for your own good. Peace out before it gets too much to handle”
The wise ones tell us this a thousand times but we still don’t remember until its too late. Things we take for granted get taken. Appreciate the people in your life. Show them, tell them and cherish them. Appreciate all the things in your life you just assume will always be around. Make it a daily practice to count your blessings and be thankful. Appreciation brings more blessings.
Every now and then someone up there sends me someone so divine to meet for half an hour, or even half a minute and my life is transformed forever. Random people – clients, patients,neighbors, acquaintances…. – old, young, male, female – people who are just so likeable. Soooooo likeable. They have a glow around them. A certain purity. A rare ability to stay for long periods of time in the present moment. And a certain magical air about them.
Whenever I do get blessed by the presence of these souls, or they help me just when I need them, I thank and ask God to bless them for their ability to spread happiness. What’s even more beautiful is some of them don’t even know they have such a lovely gift. Such people are angels in disguise.
Think of the angels who you’ve met. Thank them:) And pray there be many more such angels in disguise on our planet. We could all do with a few more, don’t you think?:)
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Aries (Mar 21 – Apr 19)
Something’s bothering you and you cant put your finger on this growing
sense of uneasiness. For a while you may feel like the others in the team are
out to steal your idea or worse still, keep you out of the loop. Don’t run away
with suspicion. Simply detach and return after a while. Overwork is taking its
toll on your health, make some time for you. Personal relationships may be
strained, realise it’s not them who needs to change, it’s your atitude towards them.
Deep and total relaxation will be very therapeutic.
Taurus (Apr 20- May 20)
Work may be boring you, or perhaps a relationship begins to lose its thrill. A part of you want to start afresh or simply run away to the mountains and completely let go of worldly life. Whatever it is that is bothering you will stop the minute you realise that only you can make a positive difference into your life. Your body may need exercise. Or you may need to up your vitamin intake. If you’ve been finding it hard to relax, how about a day at the spa? Financially expect some good news towards the end of the month.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Stop being so stubborn and thinking only your view is right. Pause and truly listen to what others are advising you. A part of you may know it’s true but your ego isnt ready to listen. Keep your eyes and ears open for a sudden opportunity. Your work load may suddenly increase and annoying disruptions could hold you back from completing your tasks. Relax, you’re only being tested on endurance levels. How much can you take? You’re stronger than you think. Financially a month of gains and opportunities, just work on your time management.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Travel broadens the mind and this is a wonderful period for getting away from the mundane and the predictable. You may discover the student within you itching to learn a new subject or skill. What stops you? A young person may open your mind to a whole new perspective. And if single, expect the sparks of chemistry and a short, sweet affair. Married couples may find it’s time to change home or expand your living space. Children will surprise you with their intelligence and you could find ways to bond more with your loved ones.
Leo (July 23- Aug 22)
Relax, your fears are not coming true. Stop taking the safe path, and will yourself to taking a few risks. The coming few months promise success and results but only if you take a leap of faith. In the personal front expect reconciliations or some form of making up with a special someone. Hearts get mended. And vows get renewed. A lucky break comes your way, don’t hold yourself back, say YES and see where you head. An old acquaintance may ask you for a favour if you’re prepared to give without expecting anything in return then do so. Acts of charity bring blessings your way.
Virgo (Aug 23- Sept 22)
Tempers run high and you may find yourself irritated with a few souls at the workplace. Bickering may escalate into full blown arguments. Keep your temper in check. And if it gets unbearable, go for a walk. This is not the time to make enemies in the team. A young man may annoy you to the point of exasperation. Even in the home front family members may begin to wonder about your sullenness. What aspect of yourself are you denying? Can a little introspection help? Or how about practicing meditation? Be your own best friend and help yourself find the peace.
Libra (Sept 23- Oct 22)
One door closes, and another door opens. Don’t take rejection personally. And try not to get too disappointed. Bigger, better opportunities are coming your way. You just have to believe in yourself a little more. A project you were waiting for may get delayed or cancelled. Doesn’t matter, there’s a lot of other things you can do cant you? An old friend may need your help. And a sibling may require advice or aid. Financially a week of planning, keep a close eye on your expenses especially if you have a tendency to splurge.
Scorpio (Oct 23- Nov21)
An investment pays off. Your team bags a prized account. And sales figures reach an all time high. A week of celebrations. And knowing that somewhere you deserve every bit of it. Your astute business sense is not going unrecognised. And you may feel like starting out on your own or contemplating a new investment. Lady Luck is smiling on you. Your personal life can get better but first you need to look within and see what needs changing from your side if you want the harmony to return. Make a lifestyle change, give up the booze or give up the carbs, do something your body will thank you for.
Saggitarius (Nov 22- Dec 21)
Repairs and firefighting seem to be theme song for the days ahead.
Something breaks down, and just as you fix it, something else goes bust. Relax,
you’re capable enough to make it all happen for you. Try not to fret about
things that are beyond your control. And nagging is not going to help either.
If your spouse or mate has been stubborn, let them be. Children may be
exasperating as well with their unwillingness to listen. Remember you can only
do so much and no more for others.
Capricorn (Dec 22-Jan19)
Hope springs forth and you find yourself renewed and reinvigorated. Your energy levels are high and a lot can get accomplished in the following days. Just make sure things arent done to hastily. A careless mistake could prove costly. Personally you may feel like a makeover and opt for a new hairstyle or even revamp your wardrobe. Pamper yourself a bit, don’t you think you deserve it?
Aquarius (Jan 20- Feb 18)
Worrying is simply a waste of energy. And trying to control what’s truly
not in your hands is only going to raise your blood pressure. Learn to let go.
At work, a tiresome project or situation finally comes to an end, bringing
relief for all. At home, a parent may need medical attention and should feel
better within a few days. Watch out for overeating or overspending. Now’s the
time for balance and moderation, and not indulgence!
Pisces (Feb 19- Mar20)
Be patient dear Piscean, things will work out the way you have planned but
you need to learn how to wait. If recuperating from an illness or ailment make
sure you eat the right food to bring your energies back. An annoying colleague
may provoke you into saying or doing something quite surprising. In terms of
your love life, you may need to improve your listening skills if you want more
harmony.
