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Changing Careers? Focus on the Future

16 Wednesday Dec 2020

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One of the joys of reading the Tarot is how ancient wisdom can be applied to contemporary and future scenarios. Especially during the times of lockdowns and layoffs where many professionals are considering a switch in careers. Not an easy place for anyone, the anxiety is understandable but the cards do have a magical way of bringing clarity and insights.

As in the case of a young woman who contacted me for a Career Switch Reading.

Career Switch Readings help in decision making , offering insights into the future potential of your choice.

Until the lockdown she thought she had found her calling in the Hotel Industry. Her days were busy with clients old and new, ensuring the hotel was perpetually booked with high profile events. And then suddenly it was over. Retrenchment. And the struggle and the stress followed. She had no choice but to switch careers if she wanted to work. She connected over the Tarot and we looked at all the options she was considering. Pros, cons and future possibilities were weighed. Her session ended with a clear direction she could pursue and did.

Her resilience and enterprise landed her a new job within 3 months managing customer relations for a large chain of hotels.

Similarly a young IT Manager got in touch. She had been on Maternity leave but was no longer keen to return to long hours and longer meetings. Work with more flexibility and passion. That’s what she communicated over a Tarot session. Her two loves were writing for kids and Teaching Dance. Could she do it? The Tarot foretold happiness in both and much needed flexibility. Perfect for a young mother. The only hitch? Writing would take at least a year before she could earn. While teaching dance revealed slow growth but better fitness levels and joy, not just for her but also her students.

We both smiled at the Tarot’s answer.

Both these professionals have displayed the very qualities required for survival and eventual success in today’s times. The courage to switch careers. Adaptibility to the new normal in their lives and in their professions. A willingness to research and explore their choices. To relearn and unlearn. And a view to recreating their future in a new field of their choice. Prerequisites for future success.

If you’re at a space where you want to change careers, get in touch for a Career Switch Reading , leave a message on mita.bhan@gmail.com/9810138315.

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The Wounded Palate

08 Tuesday Dec 2020

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The most delicious desserts will never sweeten the one with the bitter breath.

He will always complain.

“Oh the presentation is bad.

Too many berries!

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Lousy chocolate

“Ugh it tastes horrible”

He will spit on your table, scrape the chair backward

And head for the door.

Before you look at the mess he’s left behind, please walk him to the door and thank him for coming

and do ask him if you could sample

one of his desserts.

He will mumble something about not knowing how to cook, or

not having the time, or not finding the recipe. He may even look you

in the eye and tell you he can’t make desserts. And how his Father told him he couldn’t do a darn thing.

And that’s when you catch a glimpse of a young boy who was never praised, or approved, or accepted or encouraged. The harsh critiques he gives others freely and shamelessly are nothing compared to his self critiques. And the voices he heard as a child – he heard them so much he began to believe them, and eventually spew them on others.

For a second he looks at the door knob before stepping out and asks you how he can start making desserts.

You tell him to start by approving of himself.

Chances are he’ll slam the door on you grumbling to himself about incompetent cooks who waste his precious money.

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Idam Namam

25 Wednesday Nov 2020

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Nothing is mine.

No one belongs to me.

Not even my body.

Nor my mind.

Nor my thoughts.

Nor my actions.

The Past is over.

The Future who knows.

All I have is now

To surrender

To serve without expectation

Idam Namam

An ancient Sanksrit verse meaning “this is not mine” Nothing on this earth can be taken with us, nothing of Earth really belongs with us. When we have to go we leave it all behind.”Idam Namam” means to choose to live a dharmic life, in service of mankind, without expectation. The past is gone and the future is still unknown.

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The Sun Doesn’t Care

09 Monday Nov 2020

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The Sun doesn’t care if we watch it rise.

The Sun doesn’t care what we think.

Nor does it care if there’s smog or fog,

The Sun’s going to do its thing.

Like a happy orange that’s been tossed into the sky.

The Sun’s gonna do what the Sun’s gotta do.

Rise and blaze through the smoke and the hate.

The Sun doesn’t care what you think.

Even on the smoggiest of days the Sun will shine

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Angels of Compassion

15 Thursday Oct 2020

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This morning I came across this 2017 photograph online which moved me to tears. Of a man who wanted to jump off a bridge in London. He was talked down by absolute strangers who proceeded to hold him for 2 hours until help arrived. They huddled close to him and reminded him how precious Life is, how valuable he was to this Planet and to not give up.

Look at the arms of the people. Someone holding his leg. Someone giving him a hug. Another man whispering words of strength and courage in his ear. And another hand holding on to his belt. Acts of compassion in a time when the world needs it so bad. Those people were not random strangers, they were angels of compassion. People who know the power of kindness and compassion can save lives.

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Meditation Messages – Don’t Quit Now

09 Wednesday Sep 2020

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It’s easy to give up when things get difficult. I’ve done it an umpteen times. When our muscles ache with exercise after a long break. When our job application gets rejected or put on hold again and again. When no matter what we do or say, someone chooses to misunderstand us or walk away. Life’s path has its share of pebbles and thorns, but the point is to keep moving. Even when your knee bleeds. Even when you feel like crying out loud with frustration. It always looks worse before it gets better. Keep going. Don’t quit.

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5 Ways to Reduce Anxiety Naturally

04 Friday Sep 2020

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Anxiety has a way of coming in waves. Some may be up all night thinking. Some may be bingeing . Some may be restless and confused. Some may wander about with this tight knot in your stomach. Completely natural during these difficult days, there are a few ways which have helped not only me release the anxiety but also countless others.

Here are 5 quick and easy ways to relieve yourself of anxiety.

Deep belly breathing or pranic breathing is the fastest way to release pent up stress and anxiety. Incorporate it as part of your meditation or just do this whenever you start feeling the knot of anxiety.

Spending more time outdoors. Even if it’s a walk in the neighbourhood park. Colour therapy speaks about the healing and soothing powers of the colour green. And who else can heal best but Mother Nature.
Keep a stress ball by your laptop, helps release any anxiety or agitation while interacting with others.

Eat more fruit. The scent of oranges is supposed to boost happiness. Green leafy vegetables, fish are rich sources of nutrients that help relax us nourish us naturally.
Burning Essential oils or Camphor Crystals . Lavender, Jasmine, Neroli by stimulating the smell nerve receptors and sending messages to the brain to relax. If you wake up with morning anxiety then burn it in the room upon arising, and if you suffer from evening bouts, then make sure you have your burners ready in the evening

Anxiety can hit us anytime and anywhere. And though it may initially feel like it’s getting too much, calming techniques like breathing, walking or even talking to a friend can bring relief. However, if you feel it’s chronic, or not lessening despite natural aides, do consult your medical practitioner.

Mita Bhan. 2020

Tarot and the Third Party

26 Sunday Jul 2020

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Every Tarot reader will tell you about the number of queries that come in each week asking about a partner’s infidelity. Sometimes it’s the wife who discovers her husband is meeting his colleague long after work hours, sometimes it’s the boyfriend who discovers chat messages on his partners phone. Their shock, pain and anger is palpable across the distance and a reading not only reveals the presence of a third party but also the fact that they had been leaving enough clues way before the painful discovery.

Here are a few clues or signs your partner may be cheating.

  1. You get a funny feeling about them. You know when they are lying about why they’re out so often. You know from their energy that’s something’s different. You can’t put your finger on it, but your gut tells you.
  2. They act ultra possessive or aggressive about their phone and spend more time than usual either texting or talking.
  3. Their stories don’t add up and the excuses keep changing.
  4. They may not be so intimate with you anymore or begin criticising your appearance or sexual performance.
  5. Sudden interest in changing their appearance, buying new clothes, dyeing their hair, going in for a makeover.
  6. When confronted they get irritated and claim to be just friends.
  7. Losing interest in the family or things you once did together.
  8. Blaming you for making them cheat.

Whatever may be the signs, whatever may be their reasons and whatever you may choose to do after you discover your partner has been cheating, a Tarot session may be able to validate your suspicions and give you guidance, but one thing remains clear. If a little voice inside you is telling you they’re cheating, they are.

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General Energy Forecast July-November 2020

18 Saturday Jul 2020

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General Energy Forecast for July -November 2020 for all Sun Signs.

Gradual Awakening.

The bubble has burst, the alarm bells have been heard multiple times, and it’s now time to adapt to new ways of living and interaction. But if we do it with resentment or nostalgia, it will only make things worse. Frustration levels soar when we resist something new or remain in denial about a relationship. People are showing you their true colours. Don’t pretend otherwise. Decisions will take longer to reach a consensus. And many of our lives will be put on hold until we learn to be patient and to accept things as they are.

Let it Go

Feelings need to be honoured. Feelings need to be felt. Even the painful ones. The sad ones. The joyful ones. For new energies to enter, the old have to be released. Some moments may be nostalgic and bittersweet and some may see tears of relief and joy. Let it go, let it all go.

Resilience

The energies may slow down for several weeks giving us time to adapt, deal with losses, new partnerships, alliances, business ideas, strategies. The more we learn to believe in our abilities and the fact that everything happens for a reason the stronger, wiser, braver we become. There may be moments where we’ll just have to pick ourselves up, by ourselves. And be our own cheerleaders. Just don’t stop. Refuse to be reduced by life’s challenges. Keep going.

Reboot.

Changes begin to be more and more visible. New institutions and alliances are formed. The educational system undergoes the process of radical change. New organisations are established. New partnerships. New trade agreements. Mergers. Laws change with respect to travel, border issues and arrangements and new leaders emerge in the community and in the globe. New voices are heard. New platforms on social media. More insightful medical discoveries. Stories of human kindness and generosity take centre stage. Lessons are repeated until we learn. Those who love you will love you no matter what.

What’s going on around you? Where are you on your Life Path? Where are you headed? For telephonic readings/email reports and select personalised readings message 9810138315/mita.bhan@gmail.com for details. If you’d like to copy and excerpt or share the entire forecast, kindly share the page link and the Author.

Copyright Mita Bhan. July 2020

Stop Expecting. Start Accepting.

24 Wednesday Jun 2020

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Stop expecting other people to love the way you do.Stop expecting other people to treat you with fairness.

Stop expecting the other person to realise their mistakes and change.

Stop expecting perfection in yourself and in others.

Stop expecting the other person to read your mind and understood your mood.

Stop expecting.

Start accepting.

Yourself.

The others.

This life.

The faster you do it, the more peace you’ll find.

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