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May Tarot Forecast 2019 for all Sun Signs

01 Wednesday May 2019

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Aries (Mar 21 – Apr 19)

Let go trying to fix something that cannot be fixed. No matter how hard you try some people are just not going to understand you, or appreciate what you bring to the table. Detach from trying too hard. And divert your attentions to more positive and productive ventures. A relationship falls apart but you deep down you knew it would didn’t you? Take each step as it comes and keep walking. A good month to make a presentation or write from the heart, your words will be heard and appreciated. One warning, watching your spending, make sure to keep some aside for a rainy day.

Lucky Colour – Light Blue

Taurus (Apr 20- May 20)

Your hard work begins to show results. Expect incremental gains, praise and support from those around you. A wonderful period for students or those appearing for exams, the cards foretell that your efforts will be rewarded. Those wishing to upgrade their skills may sign up for a course or pursue a hobby. Just don’t get so focussed on work and money that you begin to neglect your family. On the health front, your digestive system may require a little more care and attention.

Lucky Colour – Coppery Gold

Gemini (May 21 – June 20)

You’ve come a long way baby. And only you know how much you’ve slogged to get where you are. The coast is clear. And the future is bright. What changes can you bring into your life? What new habits would you like to let go of? Financially the cards foretell a steady improvement. Healthwise you start seeing positive results with your new diet/exercise plan. And in terms of personal life, you may choose who you’d like to be with. Not everyone who is friendly is your friend and you’ve learnt to see through their masks.

Lucky Colour – Sea Green

Cancer (June 21 – July 22)

The amazing thing about you is your perserverence. You don’t give up easily. And when you take up a challenge or a cause, you know you’re in it for the long run. This month sees you at your sharpest and most determined to get through whatever obstacle you’ve been facing. Your optimism is infectious and people will be drawn to you so if you’re single expect quite a bit of attention. An older woman’s advice will be valuable. A great month to mix business with pleasure. Look forward to smooth negotiations, surprising results and a twist in a relationship.

Lucky Colour – Magenta

Leo (July 23- Aug 22)

A sudden shock or a pleasant surprise? Expect the unexpected this month. Relationships could sour or intensifty. You could resign in a moment of anger. Or be promoted in a sudden move. Anything but boring May brings a lot of activity and action into your life. And if you love the attention, then a certain someone may reciprocate. Keep your eyes and ears open to new opportunities, an idea that’s brewing today could materialise into something very successful later. Don’t get stuck in the comfort zone.

Lucky Colour – Turquoise

Virgo (Aug 23- Sept 22)

Ouch. If you didn’t pay attention to their warnings this month may bring a few disappointments your way. People will continue to let you down until you figure out what you’re doing. Make this a month to communicate. With your loved ones and your co workers. Repressing emotions will only lead to suffering. Your concerns about your finances may lead to wrong decisions. If a special someone is giving you mixed signals or ignoring you, it may be time to let go of expectations.

Lucky Colour – Emerald Green

Libra (Sept 23- Oct 22)

After a phase of disappointments, delays and obstacles, May brings sweet relief. Doors open, documents get signed, new opportunities begin to come your way. How can you do things differently? What lessons have you learnt from the past?A wonderful period is at hand for making long term commitments personally as well, marriage plans could get finalised. A reunion of old friends could bring back some happy memories. Surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you.

Lucky Colour – Gold

Scorpio (Oct 23- Nov21)

Faith will take you places you never once imagined. Your spiritual side awakens to seek answers which you’ve been holding on to for too long. Turn to meditation or prayer for solace. A significant woman in your life may expect things her way, and you will have no choice but to be more open minded to differing ways of thinking and doing. Healthwise you may need to pay extra attention to a recurring problem and find ways to change your daily habits. Money owed to you will be returned.

Lucky Colour – White

Saggitarius (Nov 22- Dec 21)

This month sees you busy preparing for a future event. Your strong need to establish yourself is visible to the world as you work hard to meet your goals. People will be cooperative but don’t take them for granted. Gratitude will go a long way. Don’t overthink matters, what appears to be a mountain is actually a molehill. In matters of the heart you’re pretty clear about the kind of relationship you want and will not compromise on your standards. Things are going to work out better than you think. Keep the faith.

Lucky Colour – Orange

Capricorn (Dec 22-Jan19)

Change is in the air but you won’t feel the effects yet. Frustrations and restrictions may make you feel like quitting, but please don’t. Good things come to those who wait. And plan. Get your papers organised, write down your goals, make a joblist and this month will proceed smoother than you imagined. Unexpected luck or help comes your way, and a friendship could turn into a love affair. Couples may decide to move homes or build something together. One tip, don’t believe your negative thoughts!

Lucky Colour – Mauve

Aquarius (Jan 20- Feb 18)

Watch out for signs of irritability and impatience. You may be repressing feelings and ignoring the signs your body is giving you. Instead of lashing out on people, take some “me time” to bring back the peace. You may be doing too much for others and it’s time to pull back a little and take care of your needs. A long talk with a dear friend could be just the thing you need. A letter may upset you or you may write a letter in a moment of anger. Pause before you react. If you find your better half a little distant, take time out to clear matters. Listen to what is not being said.

Lucky Colour – Steel Grey

Pisces Feb 19- Mar20)

This month will be busy. It’s time to roll up your sleeves and complete the growing pile of jobs you need to get done. No more procastinating. Time to be accountable for your actions and avoid binge watching or escaping. Refuse to allow self doubts to creep and replace them with confident thoughts. A month which favours career growth and international travel the cards urge you not to get complacent. Opportunities won’t knock twice. Friendships may take the back seat while you meet deadlines. And if married, reassure your spouse you’ll soon be back to your loving, attentive self, once the work gets completed.

Lucky Colour – Navy Blue

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Alternative Therapy for Anxiety #1

29 Monday Apr 2019

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The scent of oranges have been scientifically proven to be an instant pick me up especially if you’re anxious or depressed. The anti-depressive and anxiolytic properties of orange work well in the form of essential oils or even just keeping a bowl of powdered orange peel in your room allows this “happy scent” to help you let go a little.

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Karmic Relationships – Inescapable, Unavoidable

21 Sunday Apr 2019

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“Shattered” by Shreekant Palapally

A beautiful explanation on Karmic relationship by Vijay Reddy –

“The relationship that drives people crazy with anger and frustration are from a past life. These are the people who really get under your skin and exasperate you endlessly. Very often, these karmic relationships are with people in your immediate family.

Karmic relationships mean that you’ve had prior lifetimes with this person, and you both were sent back to be together to work things out peacefully. This was your soul’s choice, although it was probably highly pushed upon you by your guides and angels who helped you script out much of your life. Usually a karmic relationship is someone with whom you had a battle or other harsh circumstances. You returned together in this lifetime to ensure that you’d work things out, and clear both of your energies.

If you don’t clear the energies in this lifetime, you’ll be pressured to continue to incarnate with this soul again and again and again.

And each lifetime, his or her relationship to you will continue to be close, either through genetics and familial bonds, or through friendship, marriage, or career. So, that annoying co-worker could be your mother or husband next lifetime unless you clear the energy with her in this one.

You’re brought together with the other soul so that you can forgive him or her. This doesn’t mean forgiving their actions. It means detoxing your soul by releasing anger toward them. You don’t have to hang out with the person, but you do need to release old pent-up toxic feelings. Holding in old anger is caustic and unhealthful.

It’s also a waste of time and energy to blame that person for family dramas and your own upset. Blaming is a projection of our ego, where we don’t own our own shadows and ego issues, and we put them in the basket labeled: “It’s their fault.” And while it may be true that that person is the instigator of traumas, blaming him or her doesn’t help the situation and doesn’t balance the karma between you.

Breaking the Karmic Cycle

The first step to break this karmic cycle is for you to take responsibility for its presence in your life. Your soul agreed to be with this person because it was necessary for your spiritual progress. So forgiving yourself is the ultimate secret to healing everything in all directions of time.

This involves forgiving yourself for entering this relationship whenever you did in the distant past lifetime. You probably were given red-flag warnings by your angels then, which you chose to ignore or override. Forgive yourself for ignoring those red flags, and vow to listen from now on. Life lessons only count if we learn from them.

You get infuriated by how this person behaves. But this is how this individual’s personality works and has always worked. You were the one who chose to try to be in a relationship with him or her long, long ago. You were the one who decided that all of those red flags that your angels sent you didn’t matter. You were the one who decided that you could change or fix the person.

Now it’s time to let go of that fantasy that this person could be as you desire or dream him or her to be. You’re not the other person’s Source, nor are you the author of his or her life scripts.

Karmic relationships are akin to having a tug-of-war. They’re power plays, where one person will pull and the other person will pull back. No one wins in karmic power plays. But when one person drops his or her side of the rope (through the process of forgiving him- or herself for getting into this tug-of-war in the first place), the power struggle stops.

Use prayers for forgiveness for other and self.
Saying bless you to the soul.
Find reasons to be grateful.
Learn the lessons by asking them to be revealed.

Why Learn Meditation

16 Tuesday Apr 2019

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Ever so often I read the cards of people who are overwhelmed by the stresses in their life. They may be going through a divorce. Or have suddenly been retrenched. Or are juggling way too many things in their life at once. The cards answer their questions but as a reader, I always recommend learning meditation as a tool for handling stress for the rest of their life.

Meditation allows us to release worries one by one with breath work. It allows our minds to reach a silent space of stillness where we can view our lives as an observer and not get swept by the storms around us. It brings us clarity and peace, even if it’s for a few minutes. And it gives us the strength to face whatever life throws our way.

And that’s only the mental benefits. When we reach a state of mental wellbeing our body cells and emotions respond with a certain lightness, radiance and energy. Almost like being renewed everytime we open our eyes after meditation.

If I were to summarise why meditation should be learnt it would because meditation is the only positive practice which brings us in touch with the beauty we possess inside by letting go of the unecessary and the unwanted.

Interested in learning meditation? Or holding a workshop in your office? Get in touch with me for a Guided Healing Meditation session or group class on Meditation 101 at mita.bhan@gmail.com/whatsapp 9810138315

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“How to distinguish a real from a fake intuitive Tarot reader?” Quora Answer

14 Sunday Apr 2019

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This was originally published on Quora in answer to the question “How can you distinguish a real intuitive Tarot reader from a fake one

A little knowledge is a dangerous thing. Many people buy a deck of cards read the little white book that goes with it and then go professional within 2–3 months.

A real reader never stops learning the Tarot, they read different books, different schools of thoughts, and are constantly learning about the Tarot. A real reader will also:

1. Help you frame a question in a way that brings you the maximum amount of information in one spread.

2. Will know multiple meanings for each card and how they differ for each position of the spread.

3. Will never make claims of being 100% accurate because they know everyone is human and interpretation of the cards is open to error.

4. Will never try to scare you with cards like The Devil or Death and instead empower you with the real meaning of the cards.

5. Will end the session leaving you feel a little more clearer about the whole situation and not nervous or uneasy. 5

6. Will never try to ‘sell’ you remedies.

7. Will never make you dependent on a reading, as far as they go, a reading is a session in itself and never is the need to insist a person return weekly/monthly or ever. Their job is to give you what they sense and read about your situation and then allow you to fly free:)

Real Tarot readings are empowering and clarifying especially when used as a life guide and NOT a tool for prediction.

Mita Bhan

Meditation Symbols. The Butterfly

12 Friday Apr 2019

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When the butterfly appears in your meditation expect change. Some of it will happen naturally for you. Some will be conscious changes you make in your life. Old habits and atitudes you need to let go of. Priorities you need to relook. Things no one can do for you but yourself to lighten yourself on your path.

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Meditation Symbols – The Macaw

05 Friday Apr 2019

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To see a macaw in your meditation means its time to revel in your magnificence as a soul. Be yourself. No matter what they say. You are unique, powerful and perfect just as you are. You don’t care to compare. You are you. And they are they. Your colours will always be true because you have nothing to hide.

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April 2019 Tarot Forecast for all sunsigns

01 Monday Apr 2019

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Aries

There’s something about you few can match. Maybe it’s the way you think so quickly on your feet. Or maybe it’s the way you’re determined to accomplish whatever is set before you. This month sees you shine both at the workplace and in your personal life. Your intelligence and perceptiveness will will the respect of those around you. And if dare someone disagree, they may get a taste of your famous temper as well. Enjoy this phase. Lots can be done. Lots can be said. And lots can be achieved. You’re on a roll, and it can only get better from here.

Taurus

Time to let go of the past and the pain dear Taurean. No point holding onto the memories when you’ve got a whole new life ahead of you. Forgive, forget and move on. New beginnings are at hand, and for those who’ve been broken hearted, a new love is in the in the cards. But first you need to free up the space to let new, positive energies in. Go on and have a good cry if you need to. Friends and family will support you and inspire you in whatever you want to do. Pick up the pieces and resolve to take care of your future.

Gemini

Freedom at last. You may get time out to do what you want. Or you may be liberated from an old fear or block that was holding you back all this while. Look ahead with courage and the belief that you can and will do it. A slow and sluggish month at work leaves you with more free time to get your personal life organised. A family trip may be in the offing which would be just what you need. If single, get ready for some excitement up ahead. Make way for the new burst of energy that’s about to come into your life.

Cancer

Temper temper dear Cancerian. If you’re not exploding at the drop of the hat. You may discover people around you are cranky, irritable or just plain annoying. Instead of letting up the energy build up, how about releasing all that pent up angery. Do something to destress yourself. At work someone may get an unfair advantage over you. Or a competitor may act unfairly. You do have rivals out there, no point denying it. How about learning the art of cooperation.

Leo

You’ve been doing too much for too many people of late. And you may be feeling tired, pulled in every direction and completely scattered. Time to gather up your energies and learn to say No to those who are wasting your time or simply taking advantage of your generosity. Ask yourself if you’ve fallen in the trap of people pleasing and do something about it. A job change may be in the offing. And if you havent updated your resume yet, maybe it’s time to bring in some changes in your life?

Virgo

You may be in denial about something which is obvious to the rest of the world. Time to be completely honest with yourself. Soul searching will reveal where you may have done wrong. Make sure all the work’s done in time and in the correct way. A third party may cause trouble in your relationship or you may have to contend with some petty gossip. If you’ve been keeping to yourself for a while now, how about making an effort to get out and party before the invitations start drying up?

Libra

You’re at the crossroads. You may have to make an important decision about your life. Weigh the pros and cons and just go ahead and choose a path. The more you delay the more time you lose. A job opportunity may come your way which could be in another location or industry. Your long term mate may give you an ultimatum about committing to marriage. Or your parents may not feel like waiting for your excuses any longer. Time to pull up your socks and start doing what you promised to do.

Scorpio

Phew! The worst is over and things slowly begin to fall into place. The tensions seem to have subsided both at work and at home. If ill, the cards indicate slow but sure recovery. Have patience with people slower or younger than you. And if you were planning to buy a house or a car, things may get finalised. A long standing issue with a loved one could clear up this week. Sudden gains are indicated midmonth plus some international travel.

Saggitarius

One of your wishes is coming true. Though not in the form you originally envisaged. Look forward to a month of harmony, peace and absolute love. A good time to spend time with loved ones. The cards urge you to share your feelings with someone special. A hobby could turn into a moneymaking opportunity. And you may discover something very valuable in your own cupboard. Or find something you thought you had lost. Not a time to be by yourself, the cards urge you to go out and spread the cheer!

Capricon

What you want deep down is to make an impact, to do something no one else has ever dreamed of. And you know what, you can do it. Just take a little more of a realistic view of your surroundings and cultivate a little more patience. Be a little more assertive at work. You’ve got the makings of a leader. Just get out and show them. If something has been troubling you in your personal life, don’t keep quiet. Clear the air, say what’s in your mind honestly and discover a new sense of peace. The time is favourable for accomplishment and inner peace.

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Aquarius

Whatever you want will be yours. Whatever you are working for will be realised. And whoever you want may want you back. The cards are all about setting clear goals, believing in your abilities and having faith in things working out in your favour. A good period for complete pending jobs. Your clear mind and assertiveness will ensure success in whatever you wish for. In terms of negotiations and legal issues, victory is yours.

Pisces

An opportunity may come your way to upgrade your skills. It may be even be someone who knows a lot and takes on a mentoring role in your life. Keep your mind open to new experiences. And realise the value of this period. Someday soon you’ll be the one in power and you’ll have all these people to thank for taking you there. In relationships, a confusing period comes to an end. The person you’ve been eyeing for a while is interested. Who’s going to make the first move?

Mita Bhan