26 Thursday Nov 2020
Posted in Note to Self, Oracle, Tarot cards, tarotfortoday
Thoughts do become our reality. And we end up believing everything we think. One negative thought leads to another and another and before we know it we are at the gates of Hell. All self created. When we become mindful of our thoughts and the process, we can replace the negative with the positive, with just a few words, we shift our reality. From hell to heaven 🙂
Have a blessed day all. Stay safe. Stay healthy.
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01 Sunday Nov 2020
Posted in Forecasts, Mita Bhan Writings, Tarot, Tarot cards
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Aries (Mar 21 – Apr 19)
Logic and not emotion will get you out of a sticky situation. Use hard data to make a point or to persuade someone about something. A man of authority may recognise your abilities and if you play your cards right, he could help you advance in your chosen direction. Or better still, rise up the ladder. Discipline, high standards and honesty will be the best policy. If asking about a special someone, the cards suggest fidelity and commitment, but first you must earn it. A good month for resolving conflicts, legal issues and negotiations, your mind is sharp and insightful. One tip, stay honest, even the white lies may get you.
Taurus (Apr 20- May 20)
Moderation is the keyword for Taureans. And if you’ve been working too hard, or working out too hard, watch out for a burnout. An old injury may cause trouble but if it’s treated timely you should be fine. An old rival may reach out to bully you once and for all and it will all depend on your response. The calmer you are in the face of provocation, the better things will be. Money matters could be better and you may find yourself getting frustrated by paperwork, unecessary delays or sheer incompetency. Meditation, deep breathing should keep the anxious bouts at bay. And if you were planning on a trip, November sees things get finalised.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
If you tell your secrets to the trees, don’t be surprised if the wind carries them away. Be vigilant about your ideas, your possessions and do change your passwords. A good month for expressing yourself especially if you’re creative. Self employed Geminis may seek out financial advisors for investments and expenditures. Hold on with the spending for a little longer, get your papers right and you should feel a whole lot better. Health wise, you start seeing positive results. People may notice your make over or remark on how fit you look. On the personal front, a part of you may stop giving more than your receive in your relationships. Detachment brings a sense of peace.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Worrying about the future only robs you of peace of the present moment. Learnt to let go of whatever is stressing you. Even if it means talking to someone, or making your well being a priority. At work, an unresolved matter may stress the team out a little. Ungrateful and competitive coworkers may make the journey a little difficult for you. Keep going and don’t listen to your critics. A good month to plan a change if you really want it. A new career? A new home? Marriage? Major decisions can be made if you learn to trust the process and are patient. Married couples may find themselves bickering about incidents long gone by. Forgiveness is the key dear Cancerian. The more you let go, the happier you will be.
Leo (July 23- Aug 22)
A fresh burst of energy comes your way. And you find your creativity overflows and your enthusiasm brimming. A new project. A new opportunity or even a new romantic interest may wake you up and want to be your best self. But before you go overboard make sure you’re not being a little idealistic about the situation. Seek a second opinion. Some things may look too good to be true. Watch out for splurging on the unecessary and keep a hold on impulse shopping, you may need an extra reserve in the months ahead. A good month for students, your enthusiasm and confidence will win you the approval of the authorities and pave the way for future success. For those of you who are planning to study again, figure out what holds you back, and take steps in the direction you want.
Virgo (Aug 23- Sept 22)
You can only do your best. And if they can’t appreciate it, it’s their problem. A decision may be taken to end a relationship, resign from your job or to just move away from people who are ungrateful or who take much more than they give. Though stress levels may build up, once you decide to make the change, relief will come. A great month for reconnecting with old friends and surrounding yourself with unconditional love and acceptance. See how far you’ve come without compromising on your ethic. Figure out where you wish to go and rely on the Universe to support your path. Money matters run smoothly and money that was owed to you will be returned after a few persistent reminders. The past has taught you all that you need to know, now to gather up the resources and follow your dreams.
Libra (Sept 23- Oct 22)
Spending time with Nature will rejuvenate you and bring back things into perspective. A part of you has been yearning for a bit of peace and it is there to be found. You may understand that everything that’s happened to you has come to teach you a valuable lesson, and you’ve learnt. Success will come from breaking out of the box and experimenting with new ideas, strategies and approaches. Risk takers will find their hunches coming true. Businesses may expand or diversify. New partnerships and customers may reach out. If married your better half and you may make plans for a much needed break from routine and singles may enjoy a month of getting noticed by people who are’nt usually your type, but oh so interesting. Enjoy the energies of renewal Libran, you deserve it.
Scorpio (Oct 23- Nov21)
Take accountability for your life. Figure out where you did right and where you did wrong. Even if you keep it to yourself, know that real growth happens when we see our part in a problematic situation. Blaming others only leads to bitterness and isolation and you may find yourself struggling with relationships both at work and at home. Negotiations and legal matters may frustrate you but if you take a moderate approach and strive to improve your own shortcomings, things get better, radically. A good month to quit a bad habit or start a new fitness regime, the cards urge you to exercise greater willpower and stay persistent with your plans. Someone you may reach out to may not be interested any longer. Major financial decisions made this month will have long term benefits.
Saggitarius (Nov 22- Dec 21)
Don’t bottle up your feelings. Something you’ve been repressing may suddenly cause an explosion. The more you express yourself, the better you will feel. Time to bring out the paintbrushes and paint or turn on the music and dance the blues away. Reconnect with the creative genius thats within you. Friends and family will be a source of joy and much needed support. And will remind you that the little moments spent with love and laughter are never really little moments. Workwise you may find your heart isn’t in it and a short break should help refresh you. Money matters will be resolved as long as you are totally transparent. Remember people can’t read your mind and your heart, the more you share the more you get.
Capricorn (Dec 22-Jan19)
Impatience and frustration will only delay matters and make the journey a little more stressful. You can’t control the uncontrollables and trying to hold on and make someone else get what you’re trying to say is only going to make matters worse. How about distracting yourself while you wait with something productive? Your health could do with a little more attention this month and you may find yourself learning about alternative modalities of healing. Sudden delays at work could leave you wondering if things will ever go according to plan. Even in love matters you may wonder if they truly care. One tip, don’t dwell in the feelings that may arise this month. Everything is temporary and everything will work out in the long run. But for now you just need to be patient.
Aquarius (Jan 20- Feb 18)
Too many fingers in too many pies? Too many options to choose from and nowhere to go? November forces you to prioritise and concentrate only on that which brings you joy and brings you proven results. Avoid time wasting activities and people who rob your joy. Declutter, organise and clean up if you must. An older woman may make things a little annoying for you so guard your tongue especially if you are tempted to lash out. New sources of income open up for those in business and this month favours job changes for jobseekers. But first you need to figure out what you truly want and focus on what truly matters. An annoying old habit may need to be broken if it’s causing friction or a hangover.
Pisces (Feb 19- Mar20)
It’s no longer about drifting from day to day. This is a month to get more organised and learn time management if you havent already. A deadline may be missed or you may find yourself scrambling to complete a task in the last minute. November favours movement, travel and advancement towards your goals. People may come to test you and it would be wise to treat them all as a teachers, telling you about something you could do better. Romantically you could find yourself having to choose between 2 equally enticing souls. Engagements and marriage dates could be finalised. Just remember to listen to your heart, it has all the answers you know, just pause and listen.
Mita Bhan. November 2020
17 Monday Aug 2020
Posted in All Lives Matter, LifeLearnings, Tarot cards, tarotfortoday, TarotInsights
It took me years to understand how important it was for me to set boundaries and honour my needs. I would feel guilty and uncomfortable putting my needs first and and when I did learn I faced the wrath of those who were so used to taking without giving back or those who just assumed I would always be there for them at their convenience. The first few “Nos” were tough but it got easier with time to say No, Not Now, Goodbye or Enough.
Today’s card is a timely reminder to invest more in our own inner selves, to honour our own needs and space. Even if it means disconnecting from those who use us, or waste our time or take endlessly from us. It is finding that inner balance, reaching that space where our own self love outweighs what the other person’s reaction to us being assertive means.
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18 Monday May 2020
Posted in Forecasts, Mita Bhan Writings, Tarot, Tarot cards, tarotfortoday, TarotInsights
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“A mad scramble’s about to take place.
What are you going to do?
Join in the screaming rush?
Or stand back and let the wave subside a little before you
take a step.
You can’t go back. That world barely exists.
You can’t take the fear, the anger and the pain with you.
Just drop the excess baggage.
Forgive. Let Go. Drop. Drop. Drop it all.
Time to unlearn. And relearn.
Adapt. Accept. Advance.
You can handle it. We all can. “
The upcoming energy shifts reveals a time for a reorientation to a new normal. And an internal evaluation of our own skills, abilities, mindsets and states of wellbeing will be required to adapt to a new way of living and functioning on this planet.
Find out if the upcoming energy shifts will help you or hinder you with a Tarot Report or Telephone Session. For details message me on mita.bhan@gmail.com/9810138315.
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16 Thursday Apr 2020
Posted in Forecasts, Mita Bhan Writings, Oracle, Tarot cards, TarotInsights
In uncertain times the present moment becomes even more powerful. When we take care of how we feel, think, or act today, we can be assured of a better tomorrow. And sometimes all we need is a little nudge or a message that connects and puts us back on track or assures us we’re on track.
Here’s what my Crystal Oracle had to say when I turned to it for some much needed clarity.
Aries (Mar 21 – Apr 19)
Practice the Pause. You’ll get all your answers during your me-time. And a slow realisation that you need to take control of something in your life. Could it be your finances? Or your health? Or your relationships?
Taurus (Apr 20- May 20)
Acknowledge the kindness of others. Remember those you take for granted. Cherish and value those who have given without expectation. Go beyond yourself. How can you bring a ray of sunshine into someone else’s life today?
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Slow doesn’t mean No. Something’s testing your patience. And something’s got to change. The good old days weren’t necessarily the most balanced days. Hang in there. Some changes happen in a flash. And some take their time.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
When you’re not happy with your self how can you be happy with others? Someone will always disappoint you or not meet up to your standards. Time to forgive all those who hurt you and yourself for all those who you hurt.
Leo (July 23- Aug 22)
Don’t think of it as loss. Look at it as a clearing space for the future. Minimise waste. Minimise damage. New beginnings can only take place after purging the old. Mother Earth reminds you to be more careful.
Virgo (Aug 23- Sept 22)
Kindred spirits are coming towards you. Will you reconnect with an old flame? Or find someone who feels like family? Or create something awesome with the power of brainstorming and respectful teamwork?
Libra (Sept 23- Oct 22)
The winds of change are blowing in your direction. Will you flow with the breeze or stand firmly against it. Believe you can and you will. Prepare yourself well and you’ll float right through the storms.
Scorpio (Oct 23- Nov21)
Flexibility is always a blessing. Whether it’s the feeling you get after a great Yoga class. Or whether you stop and truly listen and put yourself in someone else’s shoes. And understand them.
Saggitarius (Nov 22- Dec 21)
Be willing to forgive. Accept the apology. Even if the memory hurts you, it’s time to let it go and give the relationship another try. Some bonds are worth fighting for, some bonds just break away don’t they?
Capricorn (Dec 22-Jan19)
You are in charge of how you feel and where you are headed. Let others have their say, but do what you must and do what you feel is necessary. Don’t back down down, now your journey has just begun in the direction you wish to shine.
Aquarius (Jan 20- Feb 18)
Sometimes you need to dig out the compass and decide where you want to go. Trust your inner judgement, you are already learning who’s real and who’s fake and now you will be steered in another direction if you don’t pay attention.
Pisces (Feb 19- Mar20)
Open minds never get disappointed. Approach your journey like a child, everything is changing, everything is renewing. What would you like to keep with you, what do you think it’s time to leave behind.
For a personalised oracle or Tarot session message me on 9810138315/mita.bhan@gmail.com.
Mita Bhan.
25 Wednesday Mar 2020
Posted in Mita Bhan Writings, Spiritual Fiction, Tarot, Tarot cards
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PC was the the little boy in preschool who was happiest when he was drawing and coloring. He drew mountains. He drew the sun. He drew fishes, and flowers and rivers and waterfalls. He dreamt of shiny stars and swirling leaves. His teachers loved him.
“Oh he’s such a sensitive child, the other day I had a bandage around my finger and he came up and kissed it and told me I’d be fine” said one teacher.
Another laughed and remarked “Cheerful little creature. Always ready to lend a helping hand”
“And there’s wisdom too. Almost as if he’s divine, the things he says….” the Principal leaned forward to listen about the Page of Cups”
“The other day I was teaching the class about washing hands. They were standing in a queue waiting for their turn on the taps. When his turn came he soaped his hands, shut the tap and turned to me and said. “I am saving water for my children”
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08 Sunday Mar 2020
Posted in Forecasts, Gods n Goddesses, Mita Bhan Writings, Oracle, Tarot cards, tarotfortoday
To all the women who raised another
To all the women who put another down
To all the women who opened a door
To all the women who slammed the door
To all the women who praised
To all the women who cursed
To all the women who gave from the heart
To all the women who stole and never returned
To all the women who comforted
To all the women who wounded
To all the women who stood up for other women
To all the women who shunned other women
To all the women who loved and lost and loved again
To all the women on this planet.
From the past the present and the future.
Goddesses and Angels.
May we honour our feminine power within ourselves
and within each other.
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28 Tuesday Jan 2020
Posted in Mita Bhan Writings, Tarot, Tarot cards, TarotInsights
Once in a deep blue moon I get the honour of reading the Ace of Cups as a response to the query if someone really loves them.
And this rare and powerful card says yes their love for you is real. The kind of love where they can feel their own heartbeat, but yours as well. Where they lie awake thinking if you are asleep or awake at 3am.
Yes your someone really loves you:)
And thank you for allowing me to be part of the beautiful energy shift this card ushered in.
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13 Monday Jan 2020
Posted in LifeLearnings, Love, Tarot, Tarot cards, TarotInsights
He couldn’t help him himself. He didn’t choose to fall in love. It just happened, the only problem was she was married and leaving her spouse was simply out of the question. When I read his cards I could see the deep love he shared with her – the kind of love where happiness and sadness went hand in hand.
He was younger than her. Settled in a high paying job. Perfectly eligible for marriage himself. And his mother and aunts made sure they showed him pictures of various girls who they felt would be his Mrs Right. Most of the time he ignored them and sometimes would even shout at them for bothering him, his voice riddled in pain and frustration.
He had tried letting go. Multiple times. In multiple ways. But somehow she found her way back into his heart and once again they’d chat, or meet. And once again he’d return to his room lying awake through the night, wondering if this was his future.
His question was simple.
“Why has she come into my life if I cannot have her as my wife?”
For one second look at this question not as a human being. But as a soul.
Love is never limited to romantic love. Love is like an umbrella encapsulating the different shades of love. And if we as souls want to experience the true meaning of Love, we need to experience every aspect of love. The joy, the pain, the longing, the peace. In lifetime after lifetime. Be it unrequited love, sibling love, platonic love, romantic love, spiritual love. Each lifetime brings a different scenario, a different learning. Lessons would be repeated until the learning was complete. And the advanced lessons would get harder.
“So what is my Soul Learning?” he asked
To accept and not resist. Love is harmony. Love is being at peace. First with ourselves and then with the other. A part of you still struggles and suffers this way. Make peace with the side of you that cries in pain. Begin to fall in love with yourself. Which part of you brings you the greatest happiness, which part of you still struggles. Embrace the shadows, find completion in yourself. Accept yourself wholly.
“And then……”
When you accept your self, you accept the other unconditionally and the situation for what it is in reality, not the way you would like it to be, something we all do when we fall in love. We think of “what if” “why isn’t it? instead of appreciating the greatest lesson in life. Love.
“You mean love her unconditionally but ….wouldn’t it would hurt so much…”his voice broke for a second.
The feeling of love we all seek, does not lie in the receiving. It exists in the giving.
“I get it”
The deck was closed. The lesson learnt. For not just the young seeker in love, but also his old Tarot card reader.
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05 Saturday Oct 2019
You are blessed today for all your good thoughts, words and actions of the past. The times you helped someone. The times you brought laughter into a sad room. And the times you were uniquely, you.
Think of a special time in your life. And express gratitude to the people and places that come up in your memory. They too have played a role in blessing you today.
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