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Mita Bhan

~ Holistic Health Counselor

Mita Bhan

Tag Archives: letting go

Why are you holding on?

30 Tuesday Jul 2019

Posted by mitabhan in Health & Wellness, Inner Strength, Inspiration, Mita Bhan Writings, Self Discovery

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findingfreedom, letting go

Image courtesy Oracle Deck by Sonia Choquette

Of course it will hurt.

Your pain is real and justified.

He used you. She lied to you. They ignored you.

And they’ll never know how much pain you felt.

Only you will.

Because you’re still holding on to the memory

while they carry on with their lives.

And you have no choice but to let go.

Hard as it may seem, it’s necessary.

Easy to say, hard to do.

But once done, you’re free.

To move on and embrace a new path.

Try it. Let go a little at a time. Or let it all go.

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If a woman speaks and no one listens, she’s the mom.

26 Tuesday Jun 2018

Posted by mitabhan in karma, LifeLearnings, Mita Bhan Writings, Relationship, Tarot, TarotInsights

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letting go, lifelessons, mothersandkids

Q : My daughter doesn’t listen to me.

I’ve been telling her what to do and now she’s got herself a job in another city

And all she’s done since she’s reached there is complain about the people and then shout at me.

Why is she suffering?

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A :  She’s learning the lesson of Tolerance and Patience.  What you’ve been telling her for the past 25 years to learn, Life will teach her in minutes.

Q : I always tell her to get along with all kinds of people , to overlook differences, to be respectful of another’s culture or religion, to just hang in there and understand the way they communicate before jumping to conclusions. Still, all she does is criticise and complain and sulk around people.

A : It’s her lesson. Not yours. You’ve done your best.  Just let go.

(one second later)

Q: I was wondering now that the kids are grown up, if I should go on that cruise I was reading about. A few of my friends are planning to travel in a couple of months…..

 

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Giving space

16 Friday Mar 2018

Posted by mitabhan in LifeLearnings, Love, Mita Bhan Writings, Tarot

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letting go, relationship issues, space in relationships, trust

Sometimes in relationships, one partner wants a little time for himself or herself. Time to introspect, process their emotions, or focus on studies or work. Most often enough the other partner panics a little, fearing the loss of the relationship and starts to frantically message the person, and if ignored they turn to readers, to find out why he or she is not responding to their texts, or if they are leaving them for good.

With the Tarot in cases like the these, the message is always the same. Leave them be. If someone truly loves you they won’t forget you and your importance in their life. Just like fields are left fallow for a while to nourish and strengthen the soil, souls too need a little ‘time out” to recharge their batteries and gain perspective. Understand and respect their need for space. Trust that things will work out. By messaging them repeatedly we only end up creating tension in the space and sometimes it drives the person further away.

Just let go, give them the space. Make them miss you.

They’ll come back when the time is right.

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Letting Go

23 Monday Mar 2015

Posted by mitabhan in Excerpts from Meditation, LifeLearnings

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Letting go doesnt mean I do not love you. Letting go doesnt mean I dont care. Or wont be there when you need me. It just means i have to focus on me for a while you focus on you. And I know when we meet again I’ll be a better me and You’ll be a better you. – Excerpts from Meditation

What is meant to be will happen

04 Sunday Jan 2015

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“Realise the futility of effort. If something is meant to be, it will come of its own accord. When you sop seeking, searching or expecting, it will begin to happen.”

The more I clamour for something, the further it slips from my grasp. The more I obsess the more tired I get from thinking about all the possible answers in all combinations. That’s my mind telling me to take a break and figure out how much energy I’m wasting in the process. Better to just be.

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Just Let Go

06 Sunday Jan 2013

Posted by mitabhan in Inspiration, Self Discovery, Tarot

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inspirational tarot, letting go, self discovery, tarot reading

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Before we began her reading, I told her the Tarot cards could answer “why” questions in a way no other tool of divination could. Her eyes lit up for a second and she prepared herself for a session.

“Why me?” she demanded, as the cards were shuffled and laid across her. “Why do I always face the challenges? The delays? The obstacles on my path. The heartbreaks. The hidden enemies. Why me?

We meditated on her energies and this is the message her cards revealed.

“If you had it easy in your life you would have been a selfish and blindly ambitious person who would have stepped on people’s toes, cared little about their feelings and would have not shared your wealth with the underprivileged. You would have been explosive and impatient with the slow and the elderly. You would have bragged about your wealth and status to others and few would have warmed upto you.

Adversity came in your life to teach you patience, persistence, hope and compassion. If you received everything you wanted when you desired it, you would have turned scornful and fearful of losing what you earned.

Adversity has shown you the value of everything you have because you’ve worked hard for it. Adversity has also taught you to give to the less fortunate with compassion and little expectation, because in your heart you know man is never grateful for what he gets freely.

You have learnt to expect little from others, experience has taught you self reliance. You have also learnt that good things come to those who wait. Success is yours, you have already accomplished things few would have only dreamt of. You know it’s not a huge windfall, it comes in bits and pieces and in your case success will be sweeter.

Your soul has learned quite a few lessons in your lifetime. Now in order to get what you want. Just Let Go.

We smiled and she checked her diary for her next question….

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