Pardon the twins on my desk today. This is their way of demanding attention. Or may be drawing attention to the message of the Tarot to this energy phase . The old is honoured and the new is welcomed. As Mercury goes direct on September 23rd a lot of blocks are released, and things speed up again in the coming weeks. Money matters, business plans, properties, taxes, profits, incomes, expenses, increments and gains come to the fore, as we start thinking and discussing the material aspects of life. A good phase to release, declutter and give away what you no longer need and start planning and focussing on what you do want in your life. Remember patience is the key here.
Have you ever thought of someone and then had them call after a few hours? Or just known who was behind the door when the doorbell rang? Or sensed someone was lying to you even though they were looking you straight in the eye? That’s your intuition speaking. The tiny voice of “knowing” that comes from the depths of your subconscious. And contrary to what is believed, this sixth sense or intuition lies within us all. It’s the truth inside all of us human beings. We all have the ability to just “know” stuff and the week ahead is about just that. Knowing stuff which you just can’t explain. Sensing things which are yet to happen. Or just getting a feel about a job, a relationship or a situation which tells you to either back off or go ahead. One word of advice, it’s not your imagination, it’s your intuition. Listen to it:)
“I’m 35. I want to settle down and have babies. What do I need to know about this guy as a prospective husband?
Her questions poured out nervously as she spoke during the session. And when I turned the cards over, I saw everything but stability with him. Reluctant to commit. Long gaps in their communication. Highly ambitious. Placing his job before everyone else.Sexual attraction but thats where it stopped. After reading out to her, I summarised “He’s not a family man”
“What do you mean?” she asked “if you’re looking for someone who places his wife and children as a top priority, he’s not. Someone who’s a homebody, with a strong nesting instinct. Who will be a father, actively involved in raising your children, he wont. Someone who will come home to you and only you every evening after work, he would rather be hitting the pubs and clubs. Or hitting on other women. When you need him, he’d probably be in a meeting and wont answer the call. He cherishes his independence and does’nt see his future the way you do. Not interested in being tied down to conventional family structures, he wants to do his thing, when he wants to.
“Yes, he loves his space and privacy. When I ask him where he’s been, he gets annoyed”
More cards revealed a man of secrets. Who treasures and loves his private world, where he is’nt answerable to anyone. And the more you ask, the more you push him away into his secrets.
Something in the cards struck a chord within her. There was a sigh of relief and a lilt in her voice. She summarised … “It’s not about me, or any other woman, it’s about him. Something in his past made him withdraw from commited, stable relationships. And somewhere, he’s not ready to be a family man at all. I dont think he ever will”
She understood. The faster she accepted his “no strings attached” attitude, the more she would accept him as he was, and release all expectations of wedding bells and babies and an apartment .She had made peace with her connection. And when she asked her next question, we both laughed. “Will I find another man?”
If you’re having a whirlwind of a day where NOTHING is going quite as planned then the Universe is trying to tell you to remain flexible. Keep your plan B ready and prepare for detours and diversions. And do remember to breathe. ✨🌺✨ This too shall pass 😊 and all will be okay
Meditate. Go inwards and make peace with yourself. Reconnect with your essence. Let the stream of thoughts trickle away until you’re in a space of “no-mind” No thoughts. No feelings. Just a state of being. In a space of pure potential.